{"id":77,"date":"2009-12-02T21:08:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-03T03:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.seekingthestill.com\/?p=77"},"modified":"2019-08-21T11:26:00","modified_gmt":"2019-08-21T16:26:00","slug":"saying-goodbye-is-never-easy-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oldseekingthestill.com\/website_e02ce2c0\/saying-goodbye-is-never-easy-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"Saying Goodbye is Never an Easy Thing&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>But what if you don&#8217;t get the chance to say goodbye?<\/p>\n<p>My paternal grandmother (TuTu) passed away this year on May 11. She was 83 years old. I&#8217;m grateful that the Lord took her quietly and peacefully, without pain or lengthy illness. We were not aware that she was sick, so we did not get to say a final goodbye. I am comforted that I spoke with her about a week before her death. She told me, just like always, how much she loved me and I did the same to her. Then we said goodbye&#8230;until next time&#8230; expecting to see each other again soon at the upcoming family weddings. Oh how I miss her.<\/p>\n<p>Our family just had her memorial service this past Friday after Thanksgiving. It was a wonderful celebration of her life. Someday I hope to be able to write her whole story (at least as I know it). I wrote a bit about her in this post (please read it, it is one of my all-time favorites), but there is so much more to share. Her life was filled with joy, pain, love, and heartache. I suppose that makes it no different from our own stories, but I&#8217;ve always felt a particular connection to hers.<\/p>\n<p>TuTu was one of the rocks in my life. From the day I was born until the day she left this earth, we had a special bond. As a child, she spoiled me, dried my tears, and I was comforted. As an adult, she shared some tough life lessons, provided guidance, and I was grateful. 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Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. Corinthians 13:12<\/p>\n<p>On the way home from our annual Thanksgiving trip this year, Audrey said, &#8220;Let&#8217;s not talk about Thanksgiving anymore. It makes me sad that it is over.&#8221; If only it were that easy, my darling. Grief is hard. Missing someone you love is almost unbearable. What a blessing that we have the hope of seeing them once again. I know you are waiting for us, TuTu. Goodbye&#8230;for now&#8230;until we meet again&#8230;all my love. 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